Jayden James -- I Was Shaken But Not Stirred

271. I am not and have never been a big fan of Spears (generation thing i guess) however if in fact she has a disease the media attention will not help in anyway. I as anyone else am concerned for the safety of her children but if you look at all the reports about her she has come off as a complete failure in every aspect of her life. (career, marriage, motherhood, friedship) It's hard enough dealing with this privately but to have it advertised everyday makes if so hard to cope. I am guilty as anyone for watching this "train wrek" but it can only end in tradgedy for her and her boys. I hope that she gets the help and support she needs to lead a life her and her boys deserve.

Posted at 12:42PM on Jan 5th 2008 by KIM IN MICHIGAN

272. in re: to #242
You sound like your really one to talk badly about anyone.. if your so ignorant to think that just because someone has bi-polar they are "Many of these people are cruel and miserable- naturally" you really need to eduacte yourself. bi-polar is not about being miserable and unhappy... matter of fact I have been a very happy and caring person all my life but yet I have the disorder.. I have to suffer with extreme bouts of depression and anxiety almost daily.. do I hurt anyone? NO... have I upset people because at times I'm moody or stubborn? yes but then again haven't we all done that at some point? Bi-polar is not about being mean... do you realize there are several people with this disorder who have contributed greatly to society? Bi-Polar isn't about all negative.. many of the people with the disorder have done many good things, lead very normal lives, and have helped a numerb of others to be able to deal with the disorder.. sure we may be on a manic phase and clean hous elike crazy, shop like there is no tomorrow, or even put orselves aside to take on tasts of others to try and help them... and then there is the not so wonderful depressiont hat comes along with it where facing the world is such a task that it's easier to just stay in bed behind closed doors.. Bi=polar isn't something you hope for or set a goal to have.. it's something that along with many other things in life just happens.. I'm sorry if the one person you met who said she had it told you of all the thigs she did and you have gotten your opinion from just that ONE person.. but educate yourself and you would be possibly able to understand the disorder a bit more and not judge everyone with it from what you have heard from one person. God forbid you or anyone in your family ever come down with it.. the way your looking at it right now would make you be a aweful support to them.

Posted at 2:34PM on Jan 5th 2008 by K

273. Unbelieveable that so many of you get so worked up over this. No wonder we have such a hostile society. Guess what...you don't know Britney nor each other so take a deep breath and calm down. Save your energy for your own life's troubles.

Posted at 12:39PM on Jan 5th 2008 by calmdown

274. well said #5

Posted at 12:55PM on Jan 5th 2008 by kjk

275. I dont think TMZ is trying to make light of Shaken Baby Syndrome....sheesh. The kid was NOT even shaken. Some people have to be soooo serious about every little thing. The were not saying that Jayden was literally "shaken". It is a saying. It is time for some to lighten up a bit.

As for Britney I just feel sorry for her. Can you imagine having every little aspect of your problems out there for the entertainment of others. I know she asks for it by being a star, but it doesnt make it less sad. I hope that if it is a mental condition they can get her the drugs and help she needs so she can try to be a good mom for her two beautiful kids.

Posted at 12:56PM on Jan 5th 2008 by Kelly B.

276. Jayden James was shaken but not stirred? That boy was not shaken!!!

But I can tell you this for sure. That little boy was inconsolable and screaming for his mommy when he was examined in the ER. My fiancee is in ER residency training at the Cedars-Sinai Center and although he was not on duty when the child was examined he has had conversations with the pediatric nurse practitioner who treated the boy and he was told that the child was so traumatized that even his father could barely console him. She said that his father reassuring him that mommy is okay and that he will be going back to his mommy is the only thing that calmed the child. But she also said that the father telling that little boy that he will be going back to his mommy was the worst thing his father could have said to him that night if it was not true.

If that child does not see his mother again for weeks or even months or years, the last memory that child will have of his "mommy" will be that night when she was traumatized and crying as he was taken from her arms. I have some sympathy for Britney Spears but my heart is crushed by the thought of what that child is thinking and feeling and will feel until the day that he can see for himself that his mommy is okay and be held by her again. That is the untold tragedy in this event and I hope that if Britney Spears remains inpatient beyond a few days, or even if she is released and returns to her home, that the father of that poor child will have the compassion and good sense, for the sake of that child, to take him to his mother, even if only for 30 minutes, so that he can see and be assured that his mommy really is okay and that no harm was done to her.

Posted at 1:08PM on Jan 5th 2008 by sympathetic concern

277. I still feel very bad for britany! I think seen as how she can not make typical responsible decisions, she should be ordered by the judge to stay in thea rehab facilty in the country until she is 100% better. Perhaps 6mths.-a year, We all know money is not a problem for her situation! She should not have them kids back until she is ok, how the hell can she take care of two little ones when she can not even conduct herself right.
AS FOR K-FED IAM GLAD HE STOOD UP TO DO WHAT HE HAS TO DO, AS FAR BEING A FATHER BUT I THINK HE SHOULD BE HAVING TO CONDUCT PROPER DRUG TESTING ONCE AND AWHILE ALSO,

GROW UP BRIT! BE A MOM! THEM BOYS NEED U!

Posted at 1:09PM on Jan 5th 2008 by Kim

278. Mr. Levin I am a little surpirsed at you. You above all you being an
attorney should consider maybe Britt has Postpartum Depression. Her baby is only year old. Remember the mother Andrea who killed her children,
she suffered from that same very disease. and her husband did
nothing to help her. Just like Kevin did nothing to help Britt, but just take her money to use to pay for his with Shar.

Will you all be happy if she commits suicide? Mr. Levin you are
being rather reckless yourself for not even considering the possibility Britt could be
suffering a mental breakdown due to Postpartum Depression.

First you guys in the Press goaded her into divorcing Kevin, saying all he wanted was her money a
nd now he wants more money. Kevin get a job. Don't pay Shar with Britss money.

Why are you not questioning why Kevin is not working? I don't get it
Are you suggesting Britt has to take care of all of Kevin's children?
Is that fair.

Yet you and your staff never talk about Britt taking care of all his
kids. I do not know Britt, I just believe in fairness and Mr. Levin you are not being fair.

You are a little too old to be acting reckless with someone's life
you are helping to destroy. That is a shame.

Posted at 1:31PM on Jan 5th 2008 by Patricia

279. KFED and shar planned the whole hting to get married to brit then take her for her money...... to make th e quick score

Posted at 2:06PM on Jan 5th 2008 by crymeariver

280. Where is PAUL PETERSON, the guy who knows EVERYTHING about child stars. Isn't it his mission to help the ones suffering? Is he still alive? Or maybe made enough money on the others, not to help Britt. I feel so sorry for her and her beautiful sons. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP THIS LOST SOUL!!!! I would if I could, but I'm so far away. WAIT, maybe that is just what she needs , to get away, from folks just using her. We are praying for her.

Posted at 2:48PM on Jan 5th 2008 by canna

281. TO CALMDOWN-----The coment you made, about not knowing Britney, is so SAD. Do you think one has to know a person to care? What about all the wonderful, brave people who died in this war?? I don't have to know them, to grieve for them.Just thankful for them, keeping us safe.

Posted at 3:11PM on Jan 5th 2008 by canna

282. Where are her parents! Why don't they take her, love her and give her the help she desperately needs. I feel sorry for her.Why doesnt everyone leave her alone. The poor kid.

Posted at 3:33PM on Jan 5th 2008 by NY GIRL

283. "It's S.O.P. for cops to take a child to a hospital for evaluation after a traumatic, protracted incident."
Really? Then why take only one child and not the other. Where was Sean Preston?

Posted at 4:12PM on Jan 6th 2008 by Giddy

284. OMG.... the order to take the child to the hospital was probably staged by K-Fed. A man just digging for his monthly income increaes. Why doesn't anyone dig into his perfect parenting skills?

Posted at 11:06AM on Jan 7th 2008 by Demi

285. Would anyone want to be Britney? She is going through a lot of anguish regardless of the reason. I remember in the interview she did with s network when she was still with KFed that he was her rock and holding her together and her admitting to being an emotonal wreck. She cried in the interview and pleaded for privacy so they could work out their problems. People say she loves her children; as a therapist my view is that she has very mixed up feelings regarding these boys since neither were planned and they have put emotional demands on her that she cannot handle. Her partying/acting out is a way of maintaining her only familiar identity that she is comfortable with even though now it is becoming destrucive; She has very few healthy coping skills. She knows she should love the kids but really doessn't have the mature capacity to love them which is why she is seen sometimes appearing negligent of them (car seat incident for example). She needs long terrm treatment to deal with long term issues as well as the likely budding of the personality disorder of borderline personality which by the way many performers have said they also suffer from. There is a webpage on google that shows a list of those who have admiitted they suffer from this terrible emotional illness that is insidious in its development and largely due to a chemical imbalance and should not be seen as able to treat with "willpower." I have treated patients on 72 hours holds. The prognosis is not always good but maybe this will be the beginning of her dealing headon with this narcissistic wound. I hope she remains alive and gets well. And hopefully the media will give her a break like they have Paris Hilton lately and give her the privacy she pleaded for long ago in the network interview. She knew then on some level that something was wrong and now we all know it.

Posted at 4:48PM on Jan 5th 2008 by GIRLTYM